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><channel><title>Chris Abraham &#187; excuse</title> <atom:link href="http://chrisabraham.com/tag/excuse/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://chrisabraham.com</link> <description>Because the Medium is the Message</description> <lastBuildDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 20:29:14 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2</generator> <xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" /> <item><title>Can You Nail a Cold Pitch to A-List Bloggers?</title><link>http://chrisabraham.com/2009/01/15/can-you-nail-a-cold-pitch-to-a-list-bloggers/</link> <comments>http://chrisabraham.com/2009/01/15/can-you-nail-a-cold-pitch-to-a-list-bloggers/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 22:10:43 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[A-List Bloggers]]></category> <category><![CDATA[A-List 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href="http://chrisabraham.com">Abraham Harrison</a>, I downloaded the <a
href="http://adage.com/power150/opml">AdAge Power 150 OPML</a> and hacked it into a spreadsheet.  Then, I had my team look up the names and emails behind the 781 blogs of the <a
href="http://adage.com/power150/">Power 150</a>. Then, I reached out to all of them, looking to see if we could maybe do something together, may be get to know each other a little bit better. I offered the list I collected for free and offered to help put together some sort of community.  Well, who knows if these things ever work or not; however, we at <a
href="http://chrisabraham.com">Abraham Harrison LLC</a> have had a lot of practice at <a
href="http://chrisabraham.com/search/node/thank">reaching out to bloggers via email on behalf of our clients and earning hundreds of supportive and awesome &#8220;earned media&#8221; blog posts</a>.  <a
href="http://jburg.typepad.com">Jon Burg&#8217;s Future Vision</a> agrees in his article <a
href="http://jburg.typepad.com/future/2009/01/perfecting-the-cold-pitch.html">The difficult art of cold pitching &#8211; Chris Abraham&#8217;s pitch to the AdAge Power 150</a>.  Thanks, man &#8212; I really appreciate the kudos!</p><p><span
id="more-5408"></span></p><blockquote><p><a
href="http://jburg.typepad.com/future/2009/01/perfecting-the-cold-pitch.html"><strong>the difficult art of cold pitching &#8211; Chris Abraham&#8217;s pitch to the AdAge Power 150</strong></a></p><p>Call it <em>ePR</em>, <em>blogger outreach/relationship management</em>, <em>networking</em>, <em>social media activation</em> or <em>social marketing</em>&#8230;  at it&#8217;s heart, this is the practice of speaking <em><strong>with</strong> </em>the community;  <a
href="http://www.adweek.com/aw/content_display/news/digital/e3ice058ab1756ad165b5f0adfee7a9a151?pn=1">enlisting bloggers</a> and the <a
href="http://www.chrisbrogan.com/blogger-relations-vs-sponsored-content/">community at large</a>, to speak about your efforts and on behalf of your brand.<span
style="font-style: italic"><span
style="font-weight: bold"><br
/> </span></span></p></blockquote><blockquote><ul><li>If you have a relationship with a blogger, you can leverage this relationship to drive your brand/client.</li><li>If you do not yet have a relationship, you have to start building one.</li><li>If you need something done today, and don&#8217;t have a relationship, you need to resort to the daunting cold pitch: pitching your product or service without any prior interaction.<br
/> <span
style="font-style: italic"><span
style="font-weight: bold"></span></span></li></ul><p>Chris Abraham, a noted <a
href="http://chrisabraham.com//">blogger</a> and popular <a
href="http://twitter.com/chrisabraham">twitterer</a>, recently sent out a private email message to many of the bloggers on the <a
href="http://adage.com/power150/">Ad Age Power 150</a> list, asking them to register their contact information.</p><p>His note was personal, personable and extremely well written.  It felt like he was really speaking to me.  No, he didn&#8217;t mention any of my previous posts.  And yes, there is a strong likelihood that this letter was a form letter.  Nevertheless, this letter feels somewhat warm, an incredible accomplishment for a <em>cold pitch</em>.</p><p
style="text-align: center"><span
style="text-align: center; font-size: 15px; font-family: Trebuchet MS"><span
style="text-decoration: underline"><strong>The Pitch</strong></span></span><br
/> <span
style="text-align: center; font-size: 15px; font-family: Trebuchet MS"></span></p><p
style="margin-left: 40px"><em>Hi there Jon</em></p><p><em>I wanted to reach out to you since you&#8217;re a current fellow member of the AdAge Power 150 with Future Visions. Please excuse the form email but there are over 780 current Power 150 members. I am popping you this note for two reasons: first, I would like your help to do something with this list; second, I just want to update you as to what I am up to.</em></p><p><em>To create this list, I collected the OPML file free off of the Power 150 page on Adage and expanded it into a list with names and emails. I would love to share the list with you so please pop me an email if you would like a copy. I was hoping we might figure out a way to keep in better touch as a group of marketing, PR, and advertising bloggers. Please shoot me any ideas you have. I was thinking we could create a community group to share news, ideas, and opportunities to work together. On that note, I am the president and COO of Abraham Harrison LLC, a firm specializing in <span
class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1232035996_0" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; cursor: pointer; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial">social media</span> PR, blogger outreach, online engagement, and online <span
class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1232035996_1" style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; cursor: pointer; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial">reputation management</span>. I would love to schedule a call so that we can explore possibilities to collaborate.</em></p><p><em>On a personal note, I have started blogging for AdAge and have had so much fun with that that I am looking to find as many opportunities to blog as I can. Please let me know if you know of anything or if you would like me to guest blog. Also, if you&#8217;re in the DC area I would love to get together. To be honest, I would love to meet you the next time I am in your neck of the woods.</em></p><p><em>Thanks so much and I appreciate your time and attention.  I wish you a very fine 2009 with much luck and success.</em></p><p><em>Cheers,</em></p><p><em>Chris<br
/> &lt;note: Lots of contact information was provided, but I have deleted it out of concern for Chris&#8217; privacy&gt;<br
/> </em></p><p
style="text-align: center"><strong><span
style="font-size: 15px; font-family: Trebuchet MS">So what do we think?  Is this a cold pitch done right?  </span></strong></p><p>Note: After reading this letter, I&#8217;m still unsure of what will be done with my contact information.  Is this being gathered as a closed list/community for AdAge?  Is this a contact list for his firm?  Will my contact information be shared with anyone outside of this community?</p></blockquote><p
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src="http://chrisabraham.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/iamthatguy.png" alt="iamthatguy I Actually Am That Guy" border="0" title="I Actually Am That Guy" /></a></p><p><strong>1 You initiate fist bumps.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>Someone told me that high-fives are passe so I have replaced them with bumps and regular, manly, handshakes.</p><p><strong>2 You order foreign dishes in an accent.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I ask for foreign dishes, yes, properly. If the dish is French then I order it in French and if it is Mexican, I pronounce it in Spanish. And in Germany, I sort of need to order it in German. If you do it right, you don&#8217;t really draw much attention to yourself.</p><p><strong>3 You shave your head at the first sign of balding.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I would totally either shave my head or crop it close if I started balding.</p><p><strong>4 You use any word Stephen Colbert invented.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I use as many words as I can remember if they were coined by Stephen Colbert.</p><p><strong>5 You have an elaborate bedtime ritual on planes—with neck pillow, sleep mask, and noise-canceling headphones.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>People with sleeping rituals of any kind need to lose their guy card immediately.</p><p><strong>6 You have a downloaded ring tone.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No</strong></p><p>I am quite amused with classic, normal, default ringtones; however, I really enjoyed sporting the &#8220;bring out your dead&#8221; skit from Monty Python.</p><p><strong>7 You wave someone along even though they have the right of way.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I think I have forgotten who actually does have right-of-way at 4-way intersections, so if I feel like I arrived a millisecond later than another, I will wave and wave.</p><p><strong>8 You say the name of the town where your Ivy League alma mater is located instead of the name of the school.</strong><br
/> <strong>Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>If I had actually gone to an Ivy League school, I would totally say New Haven or Boston or wherever.</p><p><strong>9 You own a Manchester United jersey.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>No, I am afraid not. I almost bought a Norwich Canaries jersey but decided not to.</p><p><strong>10 You quote Borat, Zoolander, or Anchorman, or reference &#8220;TPS reports&#8221; and &#8220;pieces of flair.&#8221;</strong><br
/> <strong>Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I don&#8217;t have the best memory for these things but I made a Zoolander reference just the other day &#8212; a Blue Steel reference.</p><p><strong>11 You put your BlackBerry on the table when you sit down at a restaurant.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>Yes.  In fact, all of my friends deBerry and dePhone the moment we sit down for food &#8212; not to show off but because I always have too much shit in my pockets.</p><p><strong>12 You talk baby talk to your girlfriend on your office phone.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I don&#8217;t have a girlfriend presently but all indicators point to &#8220;yes.&#8221;</p><p><strong>13 You offer to buy a cigarette from people outside bars.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>No, I have too much of a problem with entitlement &#8212; I would never offer to buy.</p><p><strong>14 You order &#8220;off-menu.&#8221;<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>Food isn&#8217;t really my bag and restaurant-going isn&#8217;t my bag, and I am pretty much omnivorous, so, like a diesel, I can run on anything.</p><p><strong>15 You own a reptile.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p><a
href="http://chrisabraham.com/category/chameleons/">Spike</a>, God rest your little soul</p><p><strong>16 You say “My bad.”<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I hate that I say this. My bad.</p><p><strong>17 You describe your relationship status by saying &#8220;It&#8217;s complicated.&#8221;<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>With me, it always is.</p><p><strong>18 You say &#8220;We&#8217;re pregnant.&#8221;<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I would love to say this &#8212; I will totally be that guy, if that guy says, &#8220;we&#8217;re pregnant.&#8221;</p><p><strong>19 You have destination-related car stickers like MV, NTK, PVT, HMP, or NPT.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>I might actually get myself a vanity plate. I never have, yet, but I aspire to.</p><p><strong>20 You make a show out of tasting wine.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>I tried to make a point of being fussy over coffee and cheese, but what&#8217;s the use.</p><p><strong>21 You preface statements with &#8220;spoiler alert.&#8221;<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I am Mr. Online and have been beaten down by spoiling, so I have learned my lesson.</p><p><strong>22 You don&#8217;t wash last night&#8217;s admission stamp off your hand.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I am not likely to scrub off the thing.  Does that mean I am preserve it or am I just <em>dirty</em>?</p><p><strong>23 You use abbreviations like TBD, ASAP, and BFD in conversation and sign off e-mails with &#8220;thx&#8221; or &#8220;cheers.&#8221;<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I have been signing emails with &#8220;Cheers, Chris&#8221; forever.</p><p><strong>24 You wear flip-flops, Croakies, Crocs, or board shorts in the city.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>My only excuse here is that I grew up in Hawaii and I never used to wear flip-flops (rubber slippers) in the city until it because ubiquitous.</p><p><strong>25 You have a nighttime wardrobe that includes a going-out shirt, concert merchandise, or limited-edition sneakers you bought in Tokyo.</strong><br
/> Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>I pretty much wear a uniform, no matter what the situation. I have &#8220;dressed up&#8221; and &#8220;dressed down&#8221; and &#8220;dressed up with jacked.&#8221;</p><p><strong>26 You say &#8220;I need my Starbucks.&#8221;<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>It might sound a little prissy until I tell you that most of the coffee you drink, especially from Dunkin&#8217; Donuts, is really a lot lot worse than Starbucks. You may think Starbuck&#8217;s coffee is &#8220;burnt&#8221; but the truth is, you just have poor taste in coffee. You&#8217;re decidedly &#8220;truck stop&#8221; class.</p><p><strong>27 You refer to the woman you’re casually hooking up with as a &#8220;friend with benefits.&#8221;</strong><br
/> Yes<strong><br
/> No</strong></p><p><strong>28 You pretend not to know who Spencer Pratt is.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I actually don&#8217;t know who Spencer Pratt. How do I answer? Yes or no?</p><p><strong>29 You offer advice to women on their &#8220;form&#8221; at the gym.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong><br
/> <strong>30 You call friends and colleagues by their last names.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I call David Gelles &#8220;Gelles&#8221; &#8212; but one is enough. I should start colling Andrew Curry, &#8220;Curry,&#8221; but I don&#8217;t.</p><p><strong>31 You refer to a date/girlfriend’s having done some &#8220;print work.&#8221;<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>I am not much of a modelizer.</p><p><strong>32 You describe anything good as &#8220;sick.&#8221;<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>I have referred to things as &#8220;sweet,&#8221; &#8212; where does that fall?</p><p><strong>33 You refer to your wife as &#8220;the ol&#8217; ball and chain&#8221; and say &#8220;I&#8217;ll take the request to management.&#8221;<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>I might never refer to my wife as my wife.  She is &#8220;Stephanie&#8221; or &#8220;Michelle.&#8221;</p><p><strong>34 You refer to a trip to the gym as a &#8220;legs day.&#8221;<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p><strong>35 You go to a show to see the opening band.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>If I like the opening band, I go to a show for the opening band.</p><p><strong>36 You think Hayden Panettiere is hot.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>As a huge Heroes fan, who in the hell wouldn&#8217;t think that  Hayden Panettiere is hot?<strong><br
/> </strong></p><p><strong>37 You put your kid in a Che Guevara T-shirt.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I love Che.</p><p><strong>38 You include the names of your kids and pets in your home outgoing message.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I would, the moment I can find a woman who might be willing to breed with me.</p><p><strong>39 You refer to money as &#8220;Benjamins,&#8221; &#8220;dead presidents,&#8221; &#8220;ducats,&#8221; or &#8220;coin.&#8221;<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I like to be as colloquial as possible when it comes to coin.</p><p><strong>40 You bitch about your contractor at parties.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I totally bitch about my contractors, who are actually employees!  Not a lot of bitch about these days &#8212; they&#8217;re a well-oiled machine, yo.</p><p><strong>41 You talk about a record &#8220;dropping.&#8221;<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I am actually old enough to remember when you would stack records on a record player and they would drop down, get played, and then another would drop, and it would be played, too.  The &#8220;record&#8221; version of a multi-CD player.</p><p><strong>42 You half-tuck your shirt.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>I think the half-tucked shirts look cool but I am not cool enough to pull it off.</p><p><strong>43 You have a goatee.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>I am either clean-shaven or I have a beard &#8212; sometimes, just scruff.  Never a goatee. Back in the day, though, my girlfriend Michelle demanded her beoyfriends have goatees (what&#8217;s up with that) and I complied.</p><p><strong>44 You refer to anything as &#8220;small-batch&#8221; or &#8220;artisanal.&#8221;<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>Like I mentioned before, I was well into cheeses and into hams and into other foodie things and I was very much into getting as many whole milk cheeses as possible. And, when you want to get whole milk goat cheese of and elite quality, you need to go &#8220;artisanal.&#8221;</p><p><strong>45 You refer to any last-stop bar as &#8220;the 19th hole.&#8221;<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I refer to as many things as possible as &#8220;the 19th hole.&#8221;</p><p><strong>46 You&#8217;re a Caucasian with a tattoo in Asian lettering.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>Tatoos appal me.</p><p><strong>47 You Evite.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I have Evited people for years and year by now. I love it.</p><p><strong>48 You own a wine Rabbit.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>I am a huge fan of the very basic &#8220;Waiter&#8217;s Friend&#8221; or the Laguiole knife/wine opener.</p><p><strong>49 You proselytize about carbon footprints.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>I am very anti-climate change hypocrisy.</p><p><strong>50 You name your kid after a character in To Kill a Mockingbird.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>My son or daughter will surely be named after some character or actor. I am a huge film-lover and also have a degree in American Literature with a minor in creative writing. It is bound to happen.</p><p><strong>51 You use the phrase flyover states.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p><strong>52 You use the word bicoastal.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>Yes, but when I use the term bicoastal, I mean American and Europe; Washington, DC, and Berlin, Germany.  Bicontinental, I guess.</p><p><strong>53 You pretend to like country music.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I actually do love country music, especially bluegrass.</p><p><strong>54 You wear DJ headphones.<br
/> </strong>Yes<br
/> <strong>No<br
/> </strong></p><p>Nope. Just simple buds.</p><p><strong>55 You use a Bluetooth headset.<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I drive in Washington, DC, and do most of my conference calls enroute. I own two bluetooth headsets: a Motorola and a Jawbone.</p><p><strong>56 You call muscle groups by shortened versions of their technical names, like &#8220;lats,&#8221; &#8220;traps,&#8221; and &#8220;pecs.&#8221;<br
/> Yes<br
/> </strong>No</p><p>I used to be a wrestler and also a college rower, so you sort of just do call them traps, quads, lats, pec, etc.</p><div
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color="#000000"> These are not the words of a pacifist or peacenik.  General George Washington, the canny military strategist and first leader of the American army, recognized that war is a horror.  While we bask in our independence today, let us also recognize the price paid by those—then and now—who fight for it.  After the Revolution, 25,000 Americans lay dead.  About 25,000 more were seriously wounded or disabled.  That is a high price, indeed, for our freedom.  Since 1776, the world has fought more than 300 wars, and nearly 40 conflicts still rage.  The cost remains steep.</font></p><p
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color="#000000">Today, 1.6 million Americans have served in Afghanistan and Iraq.  Over 4,000 are dead.  Those who return are missing limbs, are disfigured, are coping with traumatic brain injuries.  Still others have less visible wounds.  Over 300,000 now exhibit symptoms of post-traumatic stress and alienation here at home. They have broken marriages, unchecked anger, thoughts of suicide.  Their military service may be over, but they and their families (including over two million children) remain profoundly affected.  T</font>he costs related to stress and depressive disorders may reach $6 billion over the next two years, according to a recent study by Rand.</p><p
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color="#000000">And that’s where we, as civilians, must activate.  We must commit ourselves as everyday people to reach out to these wounded warriors to help them overcome.   Because I am here to tell you, nobody survives trauma alone. </font></p><p
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color="#000000">I have spent the past twelve years building a global network of people helping each other overcome the terrible cost of war—helping “victims” become “survivors.”  In over 116,000 peer visits across the war-torn regions of the world, we have learned a few things about what separates those who lie down and embrace their suffering, and those who rise above, rebuild their lives, and rejoin their communities. </font></p><p
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color="#000000">Survivors who successfully overcome traumatic injuries follow five basic steps.  First, they </font><em><strong>Face Facts</strong></em><strong>. </strong>These people don’t run from the truth of what’s happened to them.  They don’t deny injuries, or disfigurement, or anger.  They look at them, and incorporate them into their lives.</p><p
style="margin-bottom: 0in">Second, they consciously <em><strong>Choose Life</strong></em>.  It is crucial to remind ourselves and each other why life is worth living.  Rising suicide rates must be addressed head on, because most of these individuals don’t want to die as much as they want their pain and despair to end.</p><p
style="margin-bottom: 0in">Third, true survivors <em><strong>Reach Out</strong></em>.  They reject isolation and divisiveness.  They know that, to move out <font
color="#000000">of a war victim mentality and onto the path of positive survivorship, they must drop their shell of anger and resentment. </font></p><p
style="margin-bottom: 0in">Fourth, survivors have to <em><strong>Get Moving</strong></em><strong>.</strong> Those traumatized by war, whatever the condition of their bodies, must get active.  We all must take responsibility to do what it takes to “get in shape” for whatever the future may hold.</p><p
style="margin-bottom: 0in">The fifth—and perhaps most crucial key to resilience and recovery—is to <em><strong>Give Back</strong></em><strong>.</strong> Survivors recognize that it’s better to be a benefactor, not just a beneficiary.  Everyone can have a role to play and contribute in big and small ways to our families and neighborhoods.  To the veterans who served in war, I say learn to serve again.  Become active members of your communities.  Show your strength, creativity and work ethic to your friends and neighbors.  You may look different, you may feel different, but you can still contribute.</p><p
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color="#000000">And to the United States, as we struggle to recover from the war trauma we experience as a nation, I offer the same practical advice: </font><font
color="#000000"><em>Face Facts.  Choose Life.  Reach Out.  Get Moving.  Give Back. </em></font><font
color="#000000"> Families and citizens remain divided over whether we should have gone into Iraq in the first place.  The Revolutionary War was no different—many wanted to avoid war or align with England.  (Benjamin Franklin&#8217;s own son, William, the Governor of New Jersey, remained loyal to Britain throughout the war, as did nearly 20% of the colonists.)  But at the end of the war, then as now, we emerge as Americans. </font></p><p
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color="#000000"> </font></p><p
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color="#000000">When we can admit our imperfections and share our strength as survivors, as Americans, we are united.  Certainly, as victims of war we have pain.  We know loss and sacrifice.  But we are still strong.  Because it is more than just pain that unites us.  It is our shared hope for humanity—our ability to overcome—that binds us together.</font></p><p
style="margin-bottom: 0in">I am convinced that within each human being lies an inextinguishable flame, an irrepressible voice whose refrain is unmistakable: I choose freedom.  I will not choose to hate, to wallow in self-pity, to retaliate.  I instead choose to live, to thrive.  I believe that this is the American way.  Some say we are becoming less resilient and more cynical as a nation.  And, if we keep making excuses and pushing our responsibilities to each other away, that is the path we will be on.  But, I think we are better than that.  I believe strength and generosity can be found within each and every one of us.</p><p><font
color="#000000">So, let’s honor our Day of Independence by uniting in empathy and support for families struggling with fresh wounds.  In our mutual survivorship, there is no “us” and “them”—no civilian versus military, democrat versus republican, victim versus survivor.  We are united in our commitment to one another.  Choose resilience and optimism.  Choose to reach out to those who are suffering.  Let our lost loved ones, and their memories, cheer us onward and upward.  And as fireworks explode behind the Washington Monument this July 4</font><font
color="#000000"><sup>th</sup></font><font
color="#000000">, let it commemorate and shout out America’s characteristic optimism and can-do confidence that we can and will overcome this “plague of mankind.”</font></p></blockquote><div
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href="http://annohiosaysgetsocial.wordpress.com/2008/06/29/introduction-to-pod-camp/" rel="bookmark">Introduction to Pod Camp…</a></h2><p><a
href="http://annohiosaysgetsocial.files.wordpress.com/2008/06/annchris.jpg"><img
src="http://annohiosaysgetsocial.files.wordpress.com/2008/06/annchris.jpg?w=300&amp;h=225" vspace="0" width="300" align="left" border="0" height="225" hspace="5" title="A Report from PodCampOhio by AnnOhio" alt=" A Report from PodCampOhio by AnnOhio" /></a>I never ever ever thought you would hear from me, I’m going to Pod Camp Ohio. Yet, yesterday morning I was up and out the door at 7:45 to drive to Columbus for the first ever Pod Camp Ohio. I’ve seen a lot of people on my Twitter list talk about Pod Camp experiences…and I admit I have liked the idea of having so many friends in one place to get a chance to meet. But the rest of it? The sessions? Meh…</p><p>I probably would not have gone at all if I hadn’t seen a status message from Chris Abrahams–going to Pod Camp Ohio–I sent him a message, are you serious. That was the nudge I needed to sign up and make plans to go.  I kidded pre-conference that I would be in the corner with the giant panties over my head tied up with a cat5 cable.  :o)</p><p>With the help of Andrew I found the location without any difficulties, it was close to the highway and very easy to get to.  A gold star for the Pod Camp Ohio planners for finding such a great location.  The facility was nice, free wifi a geek’s paradise!  I spotted Ms. Sangs, @KaitSwanson as soon as I got in the door.  I had to give her a hug even before I checked in for the conference.   That hug and that chance to finally meet her made my day, could it get any better than this?</p><p>I started wandering around, getting my bearings, pulling out the lanyard for my name tag, writing @AnnOhio on it and getting myself organized.  As I made my way back to the room for the first address of the day, I passed a lady with pink streaks in her hair–I knew right away it was @AlisonL.  I gave her a big hug and delivered the promised homemade cookies.  It was nice to finally get to meet her in person.  As a I am talking to her I see a few more familiar faces @BarbaraKB and @DanielJohnsonJr–more hugs delivered.</p><p>I found a seat about mid-way back and made myself comfortable.  I love to people watch, and I took a look around and didn’t see anyone else that I knew.  I hear someone behind me talking to the person next to him.  “Hi, I’m Chris Abraham.”  I turned in my seat… “Chris? AnnOhio!” Naturally I jumped up to give him a big hug to welcome him to Ohio.</p><p>I looked through the session list, trying to find the non-geekiest session to go to.  First up a session by my twitter pal (who I constantly harass for being a geek) DanielJohnsonJr.  When I got to the room Chris was standing outside, he was planning to attend the same session. Alas, the door was locked.  I pull out my cellphone and send Daniel a text message–the door is locked dummy.  I made my way to the back of the room, I planned to knit during the session. The room filled quickly with people and I was glad to have a seat with a table to spread out all of my stuff.  There was about 10 minutes before the session started, it gave Chris and I a chance to talk a little more.  Daniel then had people do introductions, you know the usual name, where are you from blah blah blah…when it was my turn I said, “My name is Ann I’m here to see Daniel and to knit”.</p><p>It really was a great session, I have to confess that I learned about a few new things, and it was fun to see a Twitter pal in a new light.  (That does not mean that my constant harassment of the guy is  going to end!)  I noticed during the introductions a familiar name and stopped him.  “Oh Mr. tw3nty3ight? I saw PreppyDude talking about me to you last night I’m AnnOhio. “</p><p>“AnnOhio! I have to take a <a
href="http://brightkite.com/objects/5e618dda0ea9de1846c24ec88b7d563b24ba27ca">picture</a> for PreppyDude.” Acckkkk I iz on BrightKite!  But it shows me knitting so the guy is ok in my book.  (Sheesh BrightKite?)</p><p>The next session in the room was on viral marketing, I was comfortable and decided the topic sounded interesting, as did most of the other people at the unconference, we moved to a larger room which put the presenter 10 minutes behind.  I could have actually stayed in this session for another hour, I have a feeling that the period after the presentation, the time for questions and responses would have been just as valuable as the session.  Next up..LUNCH!</p><p>There were some challenges for lunch, but in no part due to the organizers of the event.  The catering company forgot a few of the ingredients for the tacos.  It might have also helped to make things go faster to pull the tables out from the wall and to let people go through the line on both sides, it was a narrow hallway that may have been a challenge.  I honestly heard no one complaining at any point during the day.  It was a well run event, and the organizers should be proud of what they accomplished.</p><p>Lunch, was my favorite part of the day–not because the food was amazing, it was sitting down and connecting with friends.  Talking, laughing, sharing stories…and seeing the circle of people grow and grow.  I made a few new friends–people who I added to my Twitter list with the caveat that if they weren’t adding to my life I was subtracting them.  I saw people sitting off alone, laptops open, Twittering and doing a variety of online social media.  Excuse me? You are in a room full of people, many, if not most with the same interests as you and you are ONLINE?  I’ve been known to stick a cellphone down my shirt at tweet ups when people were tweeting, not even my bra is big enough to hold a laptop.  :o)  I had someone from the conference add me on Twitter–he said he did  the add during lunch.  I later teased him “Why didn’t you come find me at lunch and sit at the cool table and have a real conversation with me?”</p><p>After being entertained by Paull Young and Luke Armour I had to stay for their session about what not to do in social media.  They made me giggle, and I would give them two thumbs up as my favorite session of the day.</p><p>Then..it happened…I attended a session at the very edges of geekiness, what I thought pod camps were all about.  As more and more html code popped up on the screen I felt the energy, the very life leaving my body.  I turned into pod camp zombie.  The presenter was full of lots of helpful information, but it was clearly the wrong session choice for me.  I hit the geek wall and crumbled to the bottom in a pile.</p><p>Yikes, it was time to escape and make my way back to my corner of the cornfields. I passed out a few hugs on my way out the door and headed home in the pouring rain.  I saw several tweets from friends who went out to dinner and or drinking afterwards, and that made me wish I was still there.</p><p>A few things I would have done differently–I would have made hotel reservations and stayed in Columbus on Saturday night.  In reality I didn’t even plan to be there at lunch time, I thought I would be long gone.  I would have left the session that sucked the life out of me and just wandered the halls connecting with people.  I’m used to going to conferences and feeling the need to attend as many sessions as possible.</p><p>All in all..a day much better than expected and a chance to connect with friends.</p><h2 class="thumb">tw3nty3ight</h2></blockquote><p
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href="http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200806/college">In the Basement of the Ivory Tower</a>.</p><p>I am still trying to sort out my thoughts on this &#8212; please excuse the disjointed nature of this post. Would you be so kind as to comment?  Maybe a conversation is just what I need to sort this out.</p><p>The premise is that many of the colleges and universities that populate the United States are are not actually members of the Ivory Tower.</p><p>And, if they are part of the Ivory Tower, they are in the basement. As a professor at one of these &#8220;basement&#8221; schools, Professor X suggests that the majority of the students who come through his English class should not be there &#8212; that America&#8217;s obsession with college educations, graduate schooling, and professional degrees as de rigeur is seriously messed up.</p><p>Why?  Because not everyone is capable of becoming collegiate.</p><p>America is a land of opportunity where everyone is equal and all it takes is hard work and focus to do whatever  and become whatever one desires. According to <a
href="http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200806/college">In the Basement of the Ivory Tower</a>, however, this is not so.  From his vast experience teaching remedial high school-level English classes in the guise of <em>Introduction to College Writing (English 101) and Introduction to College Literature (English 102)</em>, Professor X believes that the vast investment of time, money, debt, and <em>academic shame</em> associated with going to college if you&#8217;re neither prepared or intellectually capable of doing so can be ruinous to the finances, ego, pride, and self-esteem of all of the folks who fail out, still saddled with relatively enormous loans and a send of abject failure associated &#8212; <em>all for naught</em>!</p><p>I never believed this, myself &#8212; all of my friends are bloody brilliant &#8212; but I have started to begin to believe, especially in light of the sort of <a
href="http://chrisabraham.com/2006/02/23/dont-save-the-whales-and-dont-save-the-rainforest-either/#comments">comments I have been receiving</a> in response to my series of <a
href="http://chrisabraham.com/2006/02/23/dont-save-the-whales-and-dont-save-the-rainforest-either">incendiary posts about Whales</a>:</p><ul><li><span
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href="http://chrisabraham.com/2005/07/25/may-god-have-mercey-on-your-souls/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link: May God Have Mercey [sic] on your Souls">May God Have Mercey [sic] on your Souls</a></span></li></ul><p>I know. I can&#8217;t stop making fun &#8212; and that I am in fact an <span
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href="http://chrisabraham.com/2008/01/06/chris-abraham-is-an-awful-awful-man/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link: Chris Abraham is an Awful Awful Man">Awful Awful Man</a> but I am actually starting to wonder what I can do to encourage these kids that actually saving whales requires a rigorous education and lots of training and support. Saving whales requires amazing copy writing skills and the ability to network, fundraise, and communicate.</p><p>Are these commenters &#8220;just young&#8221; or are they just &#8220;communicating casually?&#8221; I was pretty literate and intellectually curious when I was in 6-12th grade!</p><p>I was writing and researching and participating in my school&#8217;s newspaper from 7th grade (my high school spanned 7-12th grade).  So where all of my geeky, nerdy, intellectual friends, too.  I was a book worm. I preferred to spend my time in Hawaii at the library than I did the beach.</p><p>I think the problem lies in the incestuous nature of intellectualism, of the academy, of the Ivory Tower, and of the social network associated with urban centers, university towns, and professional and corporate communities.</p><p>I was at <a
href="http://www.blogpotomac.com/">BlogPotomac</a> the other week and everyone there said that they suffered from Social Network Burnout &#8212; but outside of the Social Network Maven world, most people may have a MySpace or Facebook profile, but that&#8217;s it &#8212; no digg, del.icio.us, reddit, Plurk, Pownce, or anything else!</p><p>The same thing happens with regards liberal Democrats in the USA &#8212; everyone in NY, DC, Atlanta, Austin, San Francisco, Connecticut, New Jersey, Los Angeles, Chicago, only know Democrats, activists, and people who voted for Gore, Kerry, and who support Choice and evolution in schools &#8212; but that&#8217;s not America proper!</p><p>I mean, of course there is great diversity of belief, politics, and passion, but extrapolating personal beliefs and political, professional, and academic expectations can result in the sort of myopia that can not just leave children behind but might just well leave most Americans behind as well.</p><p>What is the current state of vocational training in America?  Why are our public universities, colleges, and community colleges so limited in their scope?  Should these publicly-funded places offer training and services for everyone, where everyone includes opportunity for lives wearing other collars than white!</p><p>I see this all the time in technology and the Internet &#8212; people just aren&#8217;t interested in being geeky. There is no interest there, even when I get into conversations with doctors and lawyers. I always took to being a geek. I always took to being a book worm. Mind you, my parents were both bookish and in the art world, so I guess my vector was partially chosen for me.</p><p>Much of the time, it all comes down to just not being interested. Not caring at all. The &#8220;I don&#8217;t have time for this shit&#8221; theory when you&#8217;re sitting in class wondering why you&#8217;re there instead of at your desk or in the store or at you job, making money for today, tomorrow, and for your family.</p><p>Life is messy and there is no need to make it any harder.  Yes, I understand that there is a lot of incentive for these college and universities to broaden their appeal to just about everyone, but my friends like to speak of &#8220;opportunity costs&#8221; &#8212; will going to business school and spending two years in school add to your marketability and brand more than staying in your current job?  What is the opportunity cost of attending a college, spending money you don&#8217;t have, and then fail out?  What is the opportunity when you try your hardest and can&#8217;t handle the stress or have too many things going on in your life to actually spend the time and attention required to thrive in academia.</p><p>I think one of the issue here has to do with our K-12 education. There are quite a few high school graduates who need to basically redo high school &#8212; especially if they are returning to college after years away as mature students.</p><p>Back in the day, there were all sorts of public services and night schools that were virtually free &#8212; they allowed people to take remedial course, to bone up before moving on, and to learn English as a second language.  Are these sorts of services still serving Americans or have they all become privatized into the sundry schools soliciting me late at night?</p><p>Please join me in the comments &#8212; I would love to continue the conversation and sort out my thoughts along with you.  Thanks in advance.</p><div
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