Lori Gottlieb on Marriage and Settling: Marry Him!

by Chris Abraham on 07/02/2008 ·

I met Lori Gottlieb years ago now and I am a passionate fan. There are even rumors that I will be mentioned in an upcoming Atlantic article, “Marry Him:  The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough,” which will be coming out in the March issue available online this Friday.Forget about me me me for a minute — this is about Lori.  Lori was just on NPR today and will be on the Today Show tomorrow.  Here’s an excerpt from her email:

“I’ll also be interviewed about the piece on The Today Show this Friday, 2/8 (NBC, between 8 & 8:30 a.m..).  And NPR ran my commentary today that speaks to some of the points in the Atlantic story.  You can hear that at http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=18751687.”

I think Lori is smashing and I am so happy to be a part of this article and this project.  When the article comes online on Friday, I will reveal all of the awful details of my interview — what I said about love, marriage, etc.  Egad! To quote Lori in her email:

“Thanks again for your great quotes and insight.  Either we’re all really cynical, or we’re just depressingly reality-based, and true love, like religion, is indeed the opiate of the masses.”

Amen, sister! Anyway, if you’re not yet a Fan of Lori Gottlieb, please check out her Official Lori Gottlieb Web Site. Also, check out all the magazine articles she has done in the past:

• Glamour UK (Jennifer Lopez cover profile) October 2007
• MSN (“Are You the Last One Single?”) October 2007
• Grazia magazine/UK (Nicky Hilton interview) September 2007
• Grazia magazine/UK (Courtney Love interview) July 2007
• MSN (“Left Out in the Cold”) April 2007
• The New York Times (“Teaching Movie Moguls to Wipe Drool”) March 2007
• Grazia magazine/UK (Eric Mabius “Ugly Betty” profile) February 2007
• MSN (“Valentine’s Day Survival Guide”) February 2007
• The Los Angeles Jewish Journal (“When D-A-T-E  Becomes a Four-Letter Word”) January 2007
• Women’s Health (“It’s All Relative”) December 2006
• The New York Times (“My Mother the TV Writer”) November 2006
• MSN (“First Date Fumbles”) November 2006
• Glamour UK (Sarah Michelle Gellar cover profile) November 2006
• Glamour UK (Christina Aguilera cover profile) October 2006
• MSN (“Got Kids?”) September 2006
• MSN (“Single Parent Pickup Tricks”) August 2006
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (“Snips and Snapshots”) May 2006
• Glamour (“Party of Two and A Half”) April 2006
• The Atlantic Monthly (“How Do I Love Thee?”) March 2006
• Elle (“Who’s Your Daddy?”) February 2006
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (Singles: “Sense and Sensitivity”) October 2005
• The Atlantic Monthly (“The XY Files”) September 2005
• Red magazine, UK (Teri Hatcher cover story) September 2005
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (“Once Upon a Heeb”) July 2005
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (“Mama Said…”) June 2005
• The Los Angeles Times (Calendar: “As Biological Clocks Go, His is More Like a Travel Alarm”) May 2005
• The Los Angeles Times (Calendar: “Please Leave a Hidden Message After the Tone”) April 2005
• Fresh Yarn (“Sleepless in JFK”)
• The Los Angeles Times (Calendar: “Don’t Make Me Laugh”) March 2005
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (“The Court of Cupid”) February 2005
• Elle (“Insignificant Other”) November 2004
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (“Political Bedfellows”) October 2004
• The Los Angeles Times (Calendar: “To Win With Defeatism”) September 2004
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (“Guilty of Being Too Guilty”) September 2004
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (“Wandering Back Into the Fold”) September 2004
• Glamour (“Little Black Book”) September 2004
• People (“Colors Insulting to Nature” Review) August 2004
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (Singles: “SWF Seeks Same”) August 2004
• Redbook (“Sweet Revenge”) August 2004
• People (“Grosse Pointe Girl” Review) June 2004
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (Singles: “Competitive Coupling”) June 2004
• People (“What to Keep” Review) May 2004
• People (“Like the Red Panda” Review) April 2004
• Glamour (“Why I Love Going to Work”) April 2004
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (Singles: “Vanity Body Plates”) March 2004
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (Singles: “V-Day Gestures”) February 2004
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (Singles: “Full Disclosure”) November 2003
• People (“Save Karyn” Review) September 2003
• People (“Family Trust” Review) September 2003
• Glamour (“Bed Test”) August 2003
• People (“Sushi For Beginners” Review) June 2003
• L.A. Weekly (“French Fry Nation“) June 2003
• People (“Rescuing Patty Hearst” Review) March 2003
• The Los Angeles Times (Sunday Calendar: “A Degree of Humor“) March 2003
• The Los Angeles Times (Sunday Calendar: “Out of the Deep End“) February 2003
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (Singles: “Prozac Jewess“) February 2003
• Farallon Films: Odds & Sods (“The Penis Diaries“) January 2003
• Glamour (“Tummy Troubles”) January 2003
• Redbook (“My Big Mistake that Turned Out Great”) December 2002
• Stanford magazine (“A Blonde’s Bombshell”) December 2002
• Minnesota Monthly (“Father Knows Best”) December 2002
• The New York Post (“Teens on Film”) November 2002
• People (“All is Vanity” Review) November 2002
• Redbook (“You Won’t Believe Who I Married”) October 2002
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (“Inside the Cult of Kibu”) August 2002
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (Singles: “Literary Speed-Dating”) August 2002
• People (“Confessions of a Sociopathic Social Climber” review) July 2002
• Elle (“The Ex-Girlfriends Club”) July 2002
• People (“Angels” review) June 2002
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (“Faith in Unique Places“) April 2002
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (Singles: “Will the Real Jew Please Stand Up?“) April 2002
• People (“Slave to Fashion” review) April 2002
• People (“Advanced Sex Tips for Girls” review) March 2002
• This Side of Doctoring: Reflections From Women in Medicine December 2001
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (Singles: “L.A. Jew”) November 2001
• People (“Last Year’s River” review) November 2001
• The New York Times (“A Home Office Needs Its Boundaries”) October 2001
• ChickClick (Interview with “7th Heaven’s”Beverley Mitchell) October 2001
• The L.A. Jewish Journal (Singles: “The Rabbi-Bad Boy Complex”) October 2001
• San Jose Mercury News (“The World Below” review) October 2001
• Mademoiselle (“Brunch With…” columns) September, October, November 2001
• People (“Long Time No See” review) September 2001
• Mademoiselle (“My Childhood Friends… Today”) September 2001
• Redbook magazine (“The Most Hated Women in America”) August 2001
• Modern Bride (“Destination San Francisco“) August 2001
• Seventeen Magazine (“Forgive or Forget?”) August 2001
• Mademoiselle (Health News) July 2001
• The San Francisco Chronicle (“High Maintenance” review) July 2001
• iLife (“Wired Women”) July 2001
• Farallon Films: Odds & Sods (“Fish Girl“) June 2001
• Time Magazine (“Thirtysomething meets ER“) April 2001
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• The San Jose Mercury News (“A Stethoscope on the Soul”) April 2001
• Mademoiselle (“Cocaine in the Corner Office”) April 2001
• CosmoGirl! (“Disordered Eating”) April 2001
• The Industry Standard/Year In Review (“Inside the Cult of Kibu“) December 2000
• Time Digital (“Is There a Geek in the House?”) December 2000
• The Industry Standard (“Seeking Seclusion“) November 2000
• The New York Times (“When Six Figures Add Up to Zero“) October 2000
• The Industry Standard (“From Glitterati to Digerati“) September 2000
• Webdelsol Editor’s Pick (“All the King’s Horses”) July 2000
• Salon (“But Enough About Me: Does Writing a Memoir Give People Carte Blanche to Analyze Your Life”) June 2000
• Salon Table Talk (a week-long online chat with the author) June 2000
• Oxygen.com (Breakup Girl: “Hooking Up at 35,000 Feet”) May 2000
• DrDrew.com (“Liposuction Lessons”) April 2000
• Oxygen.com (Breakup Girl: “Club Med School”) April 2000
• Stanford magazine (“Left for Dead”) January 1999
• Selected Columns from Salon Magazine, 1998:
Bad Chemistry: When your lab partner is an obsessive compulsive, not even the data is safe
Breasts on the Brain: Anatomy is grueling enough without a gang of unweaned college boys drooling over the specimens
Horrible Harvard: An interview at Harvard Medical School reveals the ice behind the ivy
Behind Closed Doors: When my favorite professor revealed that he was human, too, I knew I’d never look at him the same way again
Survival of the Earliest: Competing for grades is one thing. But facing off for parking spaces means all-out war
Penile Ponderings: In search of vestigial vaginas and other ethical dilemmas
Ghosts on campus: Within the cozy community of campus life, there are plenty of cracks to fall through
• Slate (Guest Diarist) August 1998
• The Outlook (“15 Minutes”) February 1998
 Lori Gottlieb on Marriage and Settling: Marry Him!


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1 gcberry@topshot.com 04/03/2008 at 23:10

hey Chris if you’re such a passionate fan, why not do the lady a favor and settle for HER?

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2 Chris 05/03/2008 at 09:27

We have never even been on a date. I think, maybe, my unilateral decision to marry Lori would be a little premature!

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