Comments on: A Woman on Older Men with Younger Women http://chrisabraham.com/2006/12/22/a-woman-on-older-men-with-younger-women/ Because the Medium is the Message Wed, 09 May 2012 09:02:24 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Chris Abrahamhttp://chrisabraham.com/2006/12/22/a-woman-on-older-men-with-younger-women/#comment-2241 Chris Abraham Sat, 23 Dec 2006 17:41:49 +0000 http://chrisabraham.com/?p=3439#comment-2241 I wish this were an issue I was more than merely obsessed with. I don't think I have ever dated a woman who was any more than a couple years younger. Last year, I had a super nice out with all of these gorgeous coeds from University of Richmond. I did appreciate that they were so beautiful I could have wept; I also realized that I didn't have a deep hunger for them. I couldn't stop looking -- for sure -- but I wasn't moved to touch or to pursue. Was it fear of rejection or was it just that I didn't feel the connection. When I say dating, that doesn't mean I haven't gone on dates with women a lot younger, but the women I date tend to be contemporaries -- even older. I wish this were an issue I was more than merely obsessed with. I don’t think I have ever dated a woman who was any more than a couple years younger. Last year, I had a super nice out with all of these gorgeous coeds from University of Richmond. I did appreciate that they were so beautiful I could have wept; I also realized that I didn’t have a deep hunger for them. I couldn’t stop looking — for sure — but I wasn’t moved to touch or to pursue. Was it fear of rejection or was it just that I didn’t feel the connection. When I say dating, that doesn’t mean I haven’t gone on dates with women a lot younger, but the women I date tend to be contemporaries — even older.

]]> By: Anthony Citranohttp://chrisabraham.com/2006/12/22/a-woman-on-older-men-with-younger-women/#comment-2240 Anthony Citrano Sat, 23 Dec 2006 14:23:40 +0000 http://chrisabraham.com/?p=3439#comment-2240 oh wait, i already did in the other thread. over and out! oh wait, i already did in the other thread. over and out!

]]> By: Anthony Citranohttp://chrisabraham.com/2006/12/22/a-woman-on-older-men-with-younger-women/#comment-2239 Anthony Citrano Sat, 23 Dec 2006 12:22:24 +0000 http://chrisabraham.com/?p=3439#comment-2239 i've lots to say on this issue - and will, when i'm not in an airport.but shit, if a 34 year old needs a girl to make him feel "alive again," that's sad all by itself. i’ve lots to say on this issue – and will, when i’m not in an airport.

but shit, if a 34 year old needs a girl to make him feel “alive again,” that’s sad all by itself.

]]> By: ehlhttp://chrisabraham.com/2006/12/22/a-woman-on-older-men-with-younger-women/#comment-2238 ehl Fri, 22 Dec 2006 17:44:20 +0000 http://chrisabraham.com/?p=3439#comment-2238 i think the older one gets, the more baggage they have in general, male or female. tashaf is most likely being used by this older guy. i've been in almost the same situation myself.it's cool for her because he's older...it's cool for him because she's young and naive.the age difference at 22 and 34 is much greater than an older couple, say, 32 and 44. a 22 year old hasn't really spent much social time with older people by that point in life to be able to communicate with them well. i think the older one gets, the more baggage they have in general, male or female. tashaf is most likely being used by this older guy. i’ve been in almost the same situation myself.

it’s cool for her because he’s older…it’s cool for him because she’s young and naive.

the age difference at 22 and 34 is much greater than an older couple, say, 32 and 44. a 22 year old hasn’t really spent much social time with older people by that point in life to be able to communicate with them well.

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