Well What Should She Do?

A question for my readers from well what should i do, “I’ve liked this one guy for about a year and i’ve already asked him out but he won’t say yes . . .”


” . . . and my best friend is next doors neighbors with him and she knows that he has never had a girl friend and we have a lot in common and hes really hot and we would get along great and hes perfect because we are the same height and were both tall and its really hard to find boys that are the same height and hot.”

So, what do you think? What’s your advice for well what should i do? Well, what should she do?

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Comments (10)

  1. Anon wrote:

    Honey, he’s gay. Unless you plan on devoting yourself to him as his fag hag, stop dreaming.

    Monday, November 27, 2006 at 9:19 am #
  2. What if it just comes down to he’s hot and she’s not. I mean, she never says that she’s attractive — hot — too.

    “we have a lot in common . . . get along great and hes perfect because we are the same height and were both tall.”

    Sounds like she might be the gawky friend. Sometimes men just are not willing to pursue women who are not attractive to us. Funny that.

    Monday, November 27, 2006 at 11:53 am #
  3. Anon wrote:

    What heterosexual man do you know who WOULDN’T pounce on an opportunity for free lovin’ from any woman (gawky or otherwise) where she has practically drawn a road map for him to follow? He’s gay, babe.

    Monday, November 27, 2006 at 12:35 pm #
  4. Stephanie wrote:

    First, she should buy a book on punctuation.

    Next, she should take Jody Watley’s advice and look for a new love, baby. If he’s said ‘no’ for the past year, he’s not going to change his mind NOW.

    Monday, November 27, 2006 at 4:32 pm #
  5. “What heterosexual man do you know who WOULDN’T pounce on an opportunity for free lovin’ from any woman (gawky or otherwise) where she has practically drawn a road map for him to follow?”

    Uh, me.

    Monday, November 27, 2006 at 8:35 pm #
  6. Anon wrote:

    I guess you missed my sign posts then. ;>)

    Monday, November 27, 2006 at 9:27 pm #
  7. Uh, no.

    Monday, November 27, 2006 at 10:13 pm #
  8. Anon said:

    “What heterosexual man do you know who WOULDN’T pounce on an opportunity for free lovin’ from any woman (gawky or otherwise) where she has practically drawn a road map for him to follow? He’s gay, babe.”

    Whoa - what’s this? A guy is GAY because he chooses NOT to have sex with someone he’s obviously not attracted to.

    This is why women drive me crazy. If he doesn’t take his pants off for a particular chick…he’s gay. But if he starts sleeping with her, then he’s an asshole…because he’s using her, he’s ‘taking advantage’ of her.

    So either he’s gay or he’s an asshole.

    Anon seems to be in need of broadening her mindset toward the men of DC. All of us - not just the assholes and the gays.

    And someone should buy our frustrated tall girl a copy of “He’s Just Not That Into You”.

    Thursday, November 30, 2006 at 4:44 pm #
  9. Anon wrote:

    Stick to the fact pattern kids - two critical clues here: number one, tall girl said and I quote: “and my best friend is next doors neighbors with him and she knows that he has never had a girl friend”; mmm, the snoopy best friend neighbor has seen no comings or goings of other women. Number two: “I’ve liked this one guy for about a year and i’ve already asked him out but he won’t say yes . . .”

    Girls, particularly TALL girls would never ask a guy out on a date if they were fug. If I were a gamblin’ gal, my money would be on the fact that she is attractive. So yes, my assertion still stands. She drew the road map, he didn’t bite. He’s “a gay” babe - that, or the snoopy best friend has already scooped him up and has not disclosed this to the tall, but dateless, best- girl friend. And the “DC Dating culture” argument…so yesterday. And really, how much more broad minded must I be of the men of DC? They are all assholes or “the gays” as he stated, are there other types?

    Thursday, November 30, 2006 at 11:01 pm #
  10. “Anon seems to be in need of broadening her mindset toward the men of DC. All of us - not just the assholes and the gays.”

    Yeah, and some of us are gay assholes and some of us have weighed the choices and have decided to choose career, money, work, and passion instead of bullshit, no matter how good the sex may be.

    Friday, December 1, 2006 at 9:49 am #