After all of my research, going through Chemistry.com, eHarmony, and the like, the best experience I have had has been with Match.com. You can browse, you can look around, and the experience is a lot less stressful because there is a lot less riding on it — a lot less pressure. The expectations are lower than on Chemistry.com and eHarmony because those other two promise you they this person is the person. Match.com is much simpler and it can really be casual.
Meeting for coffee or a drink is cool.
The other two sites tend to really get you into what feels like several dates before you even meet. Unlike Friendster or MySpace, where people aren’t really looking for anything serious, eHarmony and Chemistry.com are too desperate.
The folks on Match.com aren’t just looking for just sex or just friends but they’re also not looking to get married and have babies right away either.
Match.com is not too hard, not to soft, but just right.



