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	<title>Comments on: Physical Attraction is a Key Player in Relationships</title>
	<link>http://chrisabraham.com/2006/03/17/physical-attraction-is-a-key-player-in-relationships/</link>
	<description>Because the Medium is the Message</description>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 06:02:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Chris Abraham</title>
		<link>http://chrisabraham.com/2006/03/17/physical-attraction-is-a-key-player-in-relationships/#comment-1331</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2006 17:21:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am such a chicken shit.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am such a chicken shit.</p>
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		<title>By: Faust</title>
		<link>http://chrisabraham.com/2006/03/17/physical-attraction-is-a-key-player-in-relationships/#comment-1330</link>
		<dc:creator>Faust</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2006 16:46:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It does? I've been going about this all wrong!!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It does? I&#8217;ve been going about this all wrong!!</p>
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		<title>By: Cute Girl</title>
		<link>http://chrisabraham.com/2006/03/17/physical-attraction-is-a-key-player-in-relationships/#comment-1329</link>
		<dc:creator>Cute Girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2006 13:49:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why not both? ;) A hot study partner...now that's my idea of heaven.

But you're right, perhaps grad school has me unduly focused on the brain. I forgot there's more to me that people are looking at.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why not both? <img src='http://chrisabraham.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> A hot study partner&#8230;now that&#8217;s my idea of heaven.</p>
<p>But you&#8217;re right, perhaps grad school has me unduly focused on the brain. I forgot there&#8217;s more to me that people are looking at.</p>
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		<title>By: Anthony Citrano</title>
		<link>http://chrisabraham.com/2006/03/17/physical-attraction-is-a-key-player-in-relationships/#comment-1328</link>
		<dc:creator>Anthony Citrano</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2006 11:43:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why does a 4.0 at an Ivy need to be reminded how important physical attraction is?  ;)  You're looking for romantic partners on that site, not study buddies, no?

Anyway, I think in those situations it's very rude to just "go silent" as these men did.  If you've had a decent interchange, the other person at very least deserves a gentle but honest response.  "I enjoyed our conversations; you're an interesting person.  I don't think I can pursue this further right now.."

But people are &lt;b&gt;such&lt;/b&gt; chickenshits.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why does a 4.0 at an Ivy need to be reminded how important physical attraction is?  <img src='http://chrisabraham.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  You&#8217;re looking for romantic partners on that site, not study buddies, no?</p>
<p>Anyway, I think in those situations it&#8217;s very rude to just &#8220;go silent&#8221; as these men did.  If you&#8217;ve had a decent interchange, the other person at very least deserves a gentle but honest response.  &#8220;I enjoyed our conversations; you&#8217;re an interesting person.  I don&#8217;t think I can pursue this further right now..&#8221;</p>
<p>But people are <b>such</b> chickenshits.</p>
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